How To Tell If a Girl Likes You
Posted: Saturday, April 25, 2009
by LeahG Artist
Cartoon & Illustration Services
Now being female you'd think I'd have a pretty good take on this one wouldn't you!
Well I do and I don't. Women can come across as sweet innocent and vulnerable when in reality they might be lean mean manipulating machines! Game players extraordinaire , and therein the problem lies. While some women may show classic signs of being in love, such as being very clingy and bombarding you with an endless stream of texts/emails and phone calls, there are others who play a much more cunning game and will do the exact opposite of what you might expect from someone who is interested in you. The game may involve, NOT being available for you, not chasing and not accommodating your every whim. This game is supposed to make it more of chase for you and thus men being men, will be more interested if there is a chase rather than it being handed to them on a plate.
- She'll play with her hair
- Touch her neck
- Look at your lips
- Blushing of course
- Feet facing towards to you is good
- She may wish to ‘dust' you, removing imaginary specs from your clothing or hair
- Getting jealous when other women show an interest in you
- Informing you all other women are evil and up to no good
But that said, as this is 2007,
they might just blatantly approach you, tell you how they feel and then
attempt to drag you back to their lair (I mean room).
Myself, I offer no such clues. I
usually lose the plot when in the presence of someone I have a deep
crush on. I can't make eye contact, try to severely restrict all
outward signs of attraction and as a result become monosyllabic,
unanimated (aside from lots of twitching) and just become an
unattractive bumbling jabbering mess. Cunning females may get their
friends to do the groundwork for them to see if you are interested in
them too. This can involve the friend just sounding you out or some
elaborate scheme to get you to confess ‘which girl in the group' you
are attracted to. There is no end to the games that women can play, with you as the prize!
It's much easier talking to people you don't like…don't you find?
To summarise:How to tell if a woman likes you
- She might tell you
- She might mention marriage and kids and moving in very early on (if you hear this on a speed date, move on!!)
- Wishing to take up all of your time
- Flirting with you and subtly touching you
- Getting her pals to talk to you
- Feigning disinterest (tricky one as she may genuinely BE uninterested!)
- Turning into a physical jabbering wreck when you approach
Good luck chaps!
LeahG Artist and Designer
Leah left the retail and health management world a few years ago to become a freelance writer and artist. She now enjoys creating funky vibrant cartoons and illustrations for websites, promotional materials and as gifts. Leah would love to illustrate her own children's books in the future.
Visit LeahG's Cartoon and Illustration Services website here for updates and latest art work.
Leah left the retail and health management world a few years ago to become a freelance writer and artist. She now enjoys creating funky vibrant cartoons and illustrations for websites, promotional materials and as gifts. Leah would love to illustrate her own children's books in the future.
Visit LeahG's Cartoon and Illustration Services website here for updates and latest art work.
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Top-level comments on this article: (2 total)Well, CB, long time no talk....I have been working tons of Overtime, and I have finally got a break, and can do some catching up. You have inspired me to write an article of how you can tell if men are interested....although sometimes its pretty obvious with a man. We just stare!!! hahahahahhaa but there are other ways to see if a man is really interested, and if so, how much? Yeah, I might write an article from a mans point of view....!! What do you think? I can base it on my own experience with my wife.....I have been out of the single arena for quite some time, but interest is interest, it never changes....Great article, and I learned something, Good read, and informative.....Your pal, and fan......Gary.Hi Gary, I can't wait to read it!
Thanks.
Believe it or not, you have done well, Leah. I also have found, if a woman cares, her countenance (look pleasing) will let you know. She will also maximizie (asking questions) your time and effort, That is very beneficial. She will make herself available for you. This does not include all ladies.Thanks Dr Rucker :)
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