Why Are Women Such Bitches
Posted: Friday, July 13, 2007
by LeahG Artist
Cartoon & Illustration Services
I recently joined a forum predominantly populated by females and it was amusing to note the 'mob' mentality in full swing there. A gaggling collection of babbling bawling bitching girlies. Not all of them of course but the ones with nothing better to do than respond to posts they can barely comprehend, so accuse the poster of Bs when really what is at fault is their IQ. A little stretch and they snap. No flexibility there.
I did my hardest to be ...er reasonable, but it was really a waste of time.
When the geese get gabbling, clucking and their heads start bobbing up down, up down,up down, gabble gabble, cluck cluck (fella's you know what I'm saying!) there is no stopping them.
Bah who am I to talk, gabble gabble cluck cluck. It must be catching! But then it is catching and this is why it's called 'mob mentality'. Usually a term attributed to rioters I can easily see this behaviour on forums, though men are by far more civilised and less competative.
What is it in nature that makes women behave this way? Like bitches to each other rather than being supportive and nurturing which is the shit we're all force fed into believing women are about? Does it stem from the past when we thought other women might eat our babies? I seriously think some of those women would eat their own!
Anyway...........how was your day?
When the geese get gabbling, clucking and their heads start bobbing up down, up down,up down, gabble gabble, cluck cluck (fella's you know what I'm saying!) there is no stopping them.
Bah who am I to talk, gabble gabble cluck cluck. It must be catching! But then it is catching and this is why it's called 'mob mentality'. Usually a term attributed to rioters I can easily see this behaviour on forums, though men are by far more civilised and less competative.
What is it in nature that makes women behave this way? Like bitches to each other rather than being supportive and nurturing which is the shit we're all force fed into believing women are about? Does it stem from the past when we thought other women might eat our babies? I seriously think some of those women would eat their own!
Anyway...........how was your day?
LeahG Artist and Designer
Leah left the retail and health management world a few years ago to become a freelance writer and artist. She now enjoys creating funky vibrant cartoons and illsutrations for websites, promotional materials and as gifts. Leah would love to illustrate her own children's books in the future. Presently she is creating cartoon and cartoon mascots for business clients.
Visit LeahG's Cartoon and Illustration Services website here for updates and latest art work.
Leah left the retail and health management world a few years ago to become a freelance writer and artist. She now enjoys creating funky vibrant cartoons and illsutrations for websites, promotional materials and as gifts. Leah would love to illustrate her own children's books in the future. Presently she is creating cartoon and cartoon mascots for business clients.
Visit LeahG's Cartoon and Illustration Services website here for updates and latest art work.
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More commentsI am a male, and it is refreshing to see a woman admit to this. I was raised by a single mother and a much older sister and there's not enough room on this page to go into how they would constantly bitch about and bash men, without any regard to the young male child who's there listening to this. I am a gay male now. I can look at factors to why I am gay, such as, biology, growing up fatherless boy, or having an over-protective mother, but one of the biggest factors based on my experience is that many women in our culture treat eachother and men horribly, and why would I surrender my life and assets to marry one?That's a good point! Mind you I found myself (similar situation to you re raised by single mum etc.) that I am attracted to effiminate men rather than butch masculine ones. Possibly because I can't dominate the latter so easily! ;) Actually it's more because I enjoy the companionship of a man in touch with his femine side. Thanks for commenting. :)
Its absolutely true that women are truly horrible to other women. Who knows why? maybe most women feel deeply insecure due to society's pressures on them to look or act a certain way and as a means of self defense they turn on each other. As i look back over the years, I can only recall bitchy exchanges or catty battles with other women- no positive relationships at all. Actually, I prefer working with men.
I know this article is old but I stumbled across it and was kind of hoping you'd answer the question or maybe some contributors might have ideas. I can compare bitch stories to the best of them but I also work with some incredibly good women. They have a sense of humor, they take pride in their work, they are not afraid to ask for a hand or say when something is out of their league and they mentor others. The bitches look mighty bad along side of them, glaringly so at times.I am not sure why there is such a contrast between these women. I think some of it boils down to jealousy and pettiness.Interestingly, most of the difficult women I can think of are married. I would say the women are the heads of the household, bossy, demanding and not very respectful to their men. The men seem to be hen pecked, submissive and sometimes even beaten down.Hi KandiIt's perhaps the opposite, the women might feel bullied and have a submissive role at home hence they go OTT at work.Meanwhile the bitches I knew, were 'that' way always to be honest. I think it was a manner they observed from their mums so in that regard it was learned behaviour. It also appeared to be their sense of humour (belittling others for fun) and as such put them top of the pecking order as they (whether intentionally or not) became bullies and were feared.Sometimes the popular kid in the class is a bitch. A bit of a bully, controlling and offensive but they have enough personality to keep them at the top.
Meanwhile miserable women can become bitchy as they might be resentful and jealous etc. But it's not fair to say all miserable women are bitchy, some are just miserable! ;)
This is a real eye opener. I've been with a "lady" for some time now, and I've always wondered why she acted certain ways. (i.e. say something that would be hurtful to me etc)Eventually, I would snap back at her, and she would presume herself the victim. It is quite confusing behavior. Then she proclaimed that I was of no interest to her, but strangely enough; she would get hysterical if she saw any female within one-hundred feet of me.How strange! Sadly, I think it's obvious as to what must be done.Yikes! Odd behaviour indeed.Meanwhile, how often is this odd behaviour? Because if it is only a few days each month around the same time each month, she may be suffering from PMS/PMT. I am a demented fruit bat for 3 days a month and I can't do a thing about it.I just thought I'd mention that incase that is also her problem. However if it is all the time, daily and so on, then as you say......not good!
At first I would tell myslef that it was just PMS, but her outbursts have become more frequent. I have coped with her; sometimes I resort to giving her the silent treatment. I would tell myself that it would go away in a few days. Now, unless I've stumbled a gal that's in a constant PMS cycle; very little options are left. Having tried to make it work is delusional thinking in my part.However, I have reached a conclusion. She plays a very submissive role with her mother. She wouldn't dare speak back to her, and does as she is told. Unfortunately, she may build up some feelings, and take it out on me. I suppose that's how it must be. We all lash at the ones that care for us the most.That's possible, perhaps invite her to talk about her feelings about her mum and gently ask her why she gives you sucha hard time?
How is this not just you doing the same thing, except in a little more sneaky manner, on your page rather than commenting directly to all the "bitches".I refer you to paragraph 4 where I write:"Bah who am I to talk, gabble gabble cluck cluck. It must be catching!" ;)
men and women are complimentary, the weakness/fault of the latter will be the strengh/quality of the former and vice versa, all this is just natural, we just have to live with it and move on.
Ha ha ha ha! :-) Reasonably said. Thank you.
DM
Nice to see an honest, unbiased truth told about the reality of media programmed women, I wish we could dismiss it was 'not being their fault', but society has been doing that for so long, it's only made the situation worse. The same could be said of many men too, to be sure, but I would not estimate the numbers to be as high as women, more along the ratios of suicide rate disparity.Thank you Kevin :)
Thank you for this Leah. I've spent my life being disregarded by women, being laughed at to my face for being "too skinny", getting stood up on dates over and over. I wish I were gay!
"The fairer sex"? Please.
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